Her Post-If you have lemons…you can even make Bloody Mary

Now, the above title is less important. That’s just my favorite quote and I change it a little bit . I may not be the smartest person or the bravest, but a thing I know for sure : You have to have guts! Most people are afraid all their lives. Afraid of being moked if they make a remark , afraid of being rejected if they ask that One girl for a date or…..afraid of being disappointed if they dare to Dream !

It take s one to know one .I’m an observer of the human condition and I had my own struggles with negative thinking. Cause, this my friends is the bottom line : The Negativism “hunts “ us all the time.

Optimism it’s all about guts ! It’s a daily state of mind, scientifically proven to get you happier, healthier and even enjoyable for those who surround you. Who ever tells you that positive thinking is just a lousy excuse not to deal with the reality, he is just pulling your leg . The reality is that it’s a lot way harder to be creative and do some serious changes around than being a couch potato.

You have to climb a mountain every day. Well gues what? There’s two of us. Why not put a smile on your face, take a deep breathe and enjoy the view. You actually might see something beautiful besides those hard rocks. This way of thinking gives us possibilities. In order to be an optimist, you have to consciously act like one. Make full of your clumsiness, laugh of your bad balance and so on. Be kind with yourself, give it a break. After that, you’re up to take some decisions. Go for horse riding classes to improve that balance, or do some crafting with your kinds. Positive thinking comes from the fact that one knows he can change everythink, nothing is for ever. He can be better, faster, handier etc.

I m not gonna lie. Keep it flexible. You know, with the optimism part. Don t get trap in a“ Oh-so-goood” situation, cause then, life’s gonna smack your face. If the weather is nasty, you have to be realistic and cancel that Haiti plain ticket. An imaginary doctor would give the following recipe: Three parts optimism and one part negativism dissolved in a glass of water to drink daily. Till bottom.

Take a glimpse at any pacient’s routine. Is he really committed to that freaking treatment? Quite opposite, but he does his best to keep the track of pills. So, no, you don’t have to stick to the “Optimistic Diet “ forever, but still, make some time to brighten up your life.

His Post-And the Hardest Part

       

        And the hardest part was letting go not taking part…… was the hardest part…! That ai’nt gonna happen, because sticking to “it”, and beliving in you even when no one else ever did is all that matters, and besides , failure is not an option.  Dreams do come true and we are the only ones responsible of making sure they do. In life is all a matters of perspective, because all it matters is the way you look at “it” and later the projection of “it” will define you and your life.  For us “it” Is a Fact. 

Her Post- Morning Routine and Second thoughts

        He does'nt like doing the dishes and I know it very well. Yet, he insists that he does it every night and  after dinner he spares me from my nightmare. He slowly pushes my back to the door and tells me to go and rest or study. Also, he reminds me not to forget to make him something for breakfast tomorrow morning. And I sometimes don’t bother the next morning cause I m sleppy and grumpy. Cosmin shakes his head and make his own meal and still kisses me when he goes to work. I think that's love, right?

       Not the big presents or the kisses in front on parent and friends just to show off, but the daily routine moments give me a sense of Cosmin’s love. I wonder how does he sees me ? And after he shuts the door I fell sorry not keeping my promise and I start thinking that something could go wrong that day. A car incindent or whatever. I know, I'm a female and I m naturraly protective but can't help it.
       I wish I have a stamp to print on his rough heart my message : “ Your always in my mind ... “. Not that I love him, cause he's an easy loveble man. Instead, he's in my mind, my subconsciouness, and I care for him much than for me . My personality could be called multiple, because it isn't just one of me, we are two..Cos and Andreea.
       When a decision has to be made, he ' the little angel in my mind and I'm the devil. Clearly, my guidance in life comes from him, a superior spirit than mine. I m much egocentric and self conscious.
       When you'll finish reading this, please take a moment to remember the reasons you love your husband or girlfriend.

His Post- News Flash. JUST MARRIED.

Long time no see, 2 months and 10 days to be more exactly since the last time we put our thoughts on “paper”.  Won’t happen again! On the 15 of August (on the same day we met 5 years ago), we shiverly walked acompaniated  by our family in the registry court and  joined our destines in front of the law.  It was the happiest moment of our life and by far the biggest emotions we ever had. We feel more like family now ready to take a bite of our future and make sure it’s very tasty. Somehow we feel more close to our dream and we know that this decision  is just another step forward to fulfilling our second part of the dream: to become an American family. Somehow,  we wished that on the background to be and a American flag, to bad that could’nt be possible.

The future is in front of us

Excercising for the next big step.

Love...loove...looooooove :)

Al papers are made, no way back for any of us :)