Her Post- 5 Things I Learned From Being A Wife

“Education consists mainly of what we have unlearned" - Mark Twain
 
This guy is totally right! Being a wife it s a never ending learning process, so knowing that keeps my curiosity at the highest level.

Also, being aware that I do not know everything about marriage and love allows me to take a step back and recognize that some things can't be controlled. Along the way, we both felt like staying committed and invest time in our relationship needs hard work. 

Love and marriage go together like the horse and carriage...

So here's a few things that I learned from being a wife and hopefully you ll share some more from your experiences:

1. My partener is an endless source of surprises. Do all surprises supposed to be good? I ll say no! I was surprised to find out that he sucks at buying me gifts. Skip the flowers, cause he rocks at that section. But I found a way to suggest him to I want without saying with words. I make a comment or I get very interested when passing by some earings.

2. Sometimes, I might experience jealousy on his career. I mean, I m so gratefull for his job and his supportive coworkers but there are moments when I find myself feeling sad cause I haven't find a good job yet. I quickly remind that I m still young and smart and there's like 0 chances nobody will hire me. Maybe jealousy it s a hard word anyway!

3. I m part of a new social group. One day, it just hit me! I m no longer just a college girl or a girlfriend, I m a wife and therefore I get to connect with other women like me. This new status make me appear more credible in front of people and it's kind of honoring that somebody addresses me with “ Mrs”.

4. We're like a new born cell that has to grow. I feel more responsable for my education and I m more concerned to enlarge my knowledges. Why? Because I have the desire to be the best of what I can be, in order to put a strong base of our family. We already have strong values, but I know that the two of us will accomplished more than we can ever dream.

Pay attention at your " family cell". It s more that rocket science!

5. At some point, respect has to take charge over love! I should have put this one first. I look at my neighbours, the couple with whom we're sharing an apartment and I see where the lack of respect leads. You don't know yet? First, they lie each other. He's a smoker and she doesn't know it ,and she gives money to her sister behind his back.


Then, they tend to be cruel to each other. He tells her : “ This food tastes awfull, my mother makes it better” and she sais to him : “ I gave you enough money. What am I, a bank?” ( cause she earnes most of their income). And thirdly, they don’t share their lives. She tells me everything about her work , even when I m not in the mood for this and I m not her best girlfriend either. He s more quiet and keeps things for himself.

I respect my husband enough to tell him some days that I m cranky and not capable to hear what he has to say about work. And he respects me enough to say that he needs to watch his show without my voice in his ear cause then I ll get upset because he doesn't listen.


Being a wife resembles a lot with being a college girl. In order to get satisfaction, I have to make my homeworks and be consistent!

Her Post- Home alone

 Yesterday I was invited to participate at an radio event along with some colleagues from my part time job. There was a lot of people from all sorts of magazines and sites, especially boys. Cosmin did an awesome job and encouraged me to go and socialize and not worry about him being home alone. He was also a bit tired since he worked half the program yesterday. I wanted so much to bring him as well , but he told me that he wouldn t feel confortable being there. I knew that was true.

Less like this...

                                 More like this!


So me and Codrina, my friend, went there and had a wonderfull time , zipping a sweet wine , eating a piece of caramel cake and talking to strangers. When I left from home I secretly wished that Cosmin was one of that jealous guys, that tells their wives “ Be carefull, man are sneaky, they will try something with you. Maybe I should come anyway”. At a second thought, I couldn t live with a person like that, but I like to know that my hubby has a drop of jealousy. Turns out he has it!


As soon as I left and took the subway, my cell phone started to ring. He just wanted to know that I was safe and if Codrina joined me. Then, 20 minutes later he called me again “ just ” to tell me that he successfully installed a new garmin on his phone. Apparently, this news could no longer wait.
Moving on, at the party I forget the phone in my purse. Half an hour later, I check it and had a major surprise. Cosmin had called me like five times. Called him back. Guess what? He wanted to informed me that he downloaded four new movies to watch it together when I returned.


He never once asked me about the guys that were there, about the music or about the time I will go back. Still, he has his own manner to show that he missed me and he had antsy pants about me going all alone at a party were I almost knew nobody. I had a blast, but I couldn t wait to see him and spend a movie night as a family.


Is your partner jealous or he has his own manner to show appreciation and love?